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The Truth About the Honeymoon Stage (and Why It Always Fades)
Every man has felt it—that wild rush of lust, energy, and connection in the beginning of a relationship. You can’t stop thinking about her. You’re having sex like teen...
“My Military Wife Checked Out of the Marriage After SSRIs & Kids”
In this Dear DSO, a military husband opens up about his wife emotionally and physically checking out of their marriage. After three kids, mood swings, and now being on...
“He Forgot Our Anniversary… Again. Should I Finally Leave?”
A 65-year-old woman wrote in with a gut-wrenching story. After 42 years of being married to a man who never listens, never remembers their anniversary, and always puts...
Anxious & Passive: Why You're Stuck in a Sexless Marriage
In this Dear DSO submission, a man reaches out from the middle of an eight-year sexless marriage. He’s passive, anxious, and paralyzed by confusion—and he’s not alone....
“My Wife Calmly Told Me She’s Not Attracted to Me Anymore” – What That REALLY Means
Seventeen years of marriage. Three kids. Nice house. Dead bedroom for almost a decade. Then, during an argument, she looks him in the eye and says the words that’ll ha...
Why Women Really Cheat (Dual Mating Strategy Explained)
Why do so many women in long-term relationships cheat—and often with men who seem like total losers?In this video, I break down the science behind two popular theories...
"When Is It Time to Walk Away from Your Marriage?"
So many men ask me the same question: "How do I know when I've done enough?" They’ve put in the work. They’ve read the books. They’ve hit the gym, led with strength, s...
"My Wife Said I Was Her 'Safe Choice' – Now What?"
A husband finds out—after 12 years of marriage and two kids—that he was never his wife's first choice. After a night of drinks and a fight, she admitted she "settled" ...
When She Tells You Who She Is... Listen
In this Dear DSO episode, I respond to a man who saw the signs early on—but kept going. She told him who she was from the beginning. The problem? He didn’t listen.We t...
ADHD, Shame, and Approaching Women: Real Talk for Neurodivergent Men
Today’s Dear DSO submission is from a neurodivergent man—he’s got ADHD, a lot of anxiety, and not much dating experience. He feels like he’s defective, like he’ll neve...
Why Your Wife Changed Overnight: The Hidden Truth About Menopause and Marriage
Most men don’t see it coming—until their marriage is on life support.One day she’s your best friend and lover… the next, she’s distant, irritable, and completely check...
"I Married a Woman Who Refused Sex for Two Years… What Was I Thinking?"
This one’s brutal. A 36-year-old man marries a 49-year-old woman who insisted they wait until marriage for sex. Two years in, he’s still never touched her. No sex. No ...
"She Kept a Log to Avoid Sex With Me — What Did I Do Wrong?"
Mr. K wrote in with a story that’s, sadly, all too familiar. He blames himself for a relationship that was dysfunctional from day one. She showed no attraction. She we...
“Why Autistic Men Attract Toxic Women”
Have you ever looked back at a relationship and thought, “What the hell was that?”You were loyal. Honest. Steady. She was chaos.This happens all the time to autistic m...
"SSRIs Killed Her Sex Drive – What Do I Do?"
In this Dear DSO submission, Richie asks a brutally honest question: What do you do when your wife is on SSRIs, has no sex drive, and has basically shut down in the be...
The Final Talk: Should You End a Sexless Marriage?
In this episode of Dear DSO, a man named Mark writes in about the pain of being stuck in a long-term, sexless marriage. He’s done the work—therapy, self-improvement, r...
Is She Avoidant... or Just Not That Into You?
I hear from a lot of men who fall hard for a woman… and then she starts pulling away. Hot one minute, cold the next. Is it an avoidant attachment style—or is she just ...
"Worried About My Adult Kids Stuck With a Toxic Mom"
In this Dear DSO episode, we tackle Holden’s powerful story: ✅ A 22-year marriage, wrecked by infidelity ✅ A toxic ex dragging their adult kids down ✅ A father who reb...
Why She Hasn’t Touched You in 8 Years (And Why Chores Won’t Fix It)
In this episode of Dear DSO, I tackle Dave’s story — he’s been married 13 years, but for the last eight, the bedroom has been dead. Less than 10 times a year. He’s doi...
“Am I a Sex Maniac… or Just a Normal Guy?”
Is it wrong to want more sex in your marriage? What if your wife thinks you're a pervert for having a normal male sex drive?In this episode of Dear DSO, I respond to a...