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“Am I a Sex Maniac… or Just a Normal Guy?”
Is it wrong to want more sex in your marriage? What if your wife thinks you're a pervert for having a normal male sex drive?In this episode of Dear DSO, I respond to a...
Will a Vasectomy Kill Her Desire for You?
In this Dear DSO episode, we’re diving into a common and surprisingly emotional question: "If I get a vasectomy, will my wife still want me?"This one came from Matt — ...
Post-Divorce Midlife Crisis: Should You Hit the Road or Stay Safe?
In this “Dear DSO” episode, I respond to a story from John—a newly separated man wondering if it’s time to ditch the 9-to-5 life, buy a van, and find himself on the op...
"I Caught Her Messaging Another Man… So I Ended It. Was I Wrong?"
In this Dear DSO submission, a follower named John reached out to share his story. He was in a long-distance relationship, had clear boundaries about contact with the ...
“30 Years in a Dead Bedroom… Then She Finally Told Me Why” - Live Chat With Michael
Michael reached out to me with a story I hear way too often. Thirty years of a sexless marriage, confusion, shame, guilt — and then, one day, his wife finally opens up...
“We Divorced, Remarried… Now She Wants to Date Again?”
In today’s Dear DSO, I respond to a heartbreaking story from a 39-year-old Army Special Ops veteran who's been through the wringer—divorce, remarriage, infidelity, the...
“Depressed About Marriage… Is It Even Worth It Anymore?”
In this episode of Dear DSO, I respond to a letter from Jerome—a man who’s feeling disillusioned and depressed about relationships and marriage. After a breakup and ye...
How Nice Guys Sabotage Their Relationships | Dr. Robert Glover (No More Mr. Nice Guy)
In this live conversation, I sit down with Dr. Robert Glover, author of No More Mr. Nice Guy, to talk about the psychology of the modern man—especially the ones strugg...
Comfort Kills Desire? The Erotic Cost of Feeling Safe in Marriage
We all crave emotional safety and stability in our long-term relationships…But what if that very safety is what slowly smothers erotic desire?In this livestream, I div...
“We’re Just Dating… And Already in a Dead Bedroom?”
Brendan’s been dating his girlfriend for three years — and the sex is already slowing to a crawl. He’s worried this is setting the tone for a future marriage, and he’s...
"How Do I Convince My Older Wife to Want Sex Again?"
Ramius has been married for 47 years. In his 70s, he’s gotten healthy, got his testosterone up, and wants to stay sexually and emotionally connected to his wife. The p...
“Sexless Since Baby #1… And She Threatens Suicide If I Leave”
Keith has been married six years. No sex since baby #1. Volatile arguments. Threats of suicide. Police visits. And yet — he's afraid to leave. This is the classic trau...
“She Had an Affair, Still Won’t Touch Me… But Gets Jealous?”
Ross is in a marriage where intimacy is dead, but the jealousy is alive and well. Despite his massive physical transformation and emotional growth, his wife remains co...
"My Wife Turned Into a MomBot — What Happened to Us?"
In this Dear DSO submission, a husband shares his frustration: after two kids, his wife seems to have completely disappeared into motherhood. Once bubbly and fun, now ...
“We Divorced, Remarried… Now She Wants to Date Again?”
Ned is a Special Ops vet whose marriage has seen it all — deployment, infidelity, gaslighting, emotional chaos… and now his wife wants to “separate, date around, and r...
"I Lost My Wife… and My Entire Identity"
In this powerful Dear DSO entry, I read a message from a man whose wife left him after 20 years of marriage. He gave everything to his family—his time, energy, identit...
"My Wife Is Polyamorous Now – And Wants Her Boyfriend in Our Bed"
A husband writes in with a heartbreaking and outrageous story: after 16 years of marriage and raising six boys together, his wife gave him an ultimatum — “Open marriag...
"My Wife Cheated with Our Neighbor and Lifelong Friend – What Now?"
What happens when your wife cheats... not just with anyone, but with your married next-door neighbor you've known since childhood?Jake wrote in to share his heartbreak...
She Used a Vibrator… and He Called It Cheating - A Live Chat With a Female Follower
Victoria reached out to share her story — a candid, emotional, and often shocking look into a toxic relationship filled with insecurity, gaslighting, and infidelity.Fr...
Do Men Still Need Marriage? - My Live Chat With Dr. Orion Taraban
In this candid livestream, Ralph is joined by psychologist and creator of @psychacks , Dr. Orion Taraban, for a powerful and thought-provoking conversation on modern ...
Why Some Wives Hate When Men Take TRT and Viagra (from a DSO Live Event)
What happens when a man starts taking control of his health—drops weight, hits the gym, starts TRT and Viagra—and his wife doesn’t like it?In this clip from a Dad Star...
"Your Book Doesn’t Work" – A Reader Calls Me Out
A reader sent me an email with some harsh feedback—he says my book is BS because by the time a man picks it up, his marriage is already doomed. He’s frustrated, resent...
"I’m Addicted to Porn" – A Husband’s Confession & My Response
A man reached out with a tough confession: after years of a sexless marriage, he turned to porn—and now he feels trapped. He says he's addicted, his wife ignores the p...
"No... That Doesn't Count!" - A Woman Writes in About Her Husband's OCD Cleaning. Oh boy...
Jennifer writes into to share the story of her OCD husband's super cleaning habits, and how she doesn't feel like it "counts" as helping out like "normal" guys do... b...
After 4 Years of Fatherhood, He Discovered the Unthinkable (from a DSO Live Stream)
This is a clip from one of my recent DSO Live Streams on Facebook and Youtube. What happens when a man gives everything to his marriage—only to discover it was built o...
"She Warned Me... And I Didn't Listen. Now I'm Paying The Price."
A follower shares his story that is, unfortunately, all too common. His woman gave him every indication that she wasn't really good long-term relationship material. In...
Is The "Shallow" Stuff Important in a Long-Term Relationship? Yes... VERY.
This is a follow-up to a post I recently made about relationships floundering due to "silly" things like looks and money. Yes, those things matter! They don't go away ...
“Caught in a Chaotic Relationship Cycle, Help!”
A follower reaches out to tell the story of his very chaotic and dysfunctional relationship. Like most, he had many opportunities to make a course correction, but he k...
“In Sickness and in Health” -- When Being the Caregiver to a Sick Wife Is the Final Straw
A man reached out with a gut-wrenching confession: His wife is sick, and he’s doing everything to take care of her… but their marriage was broken long before the illne...
"My Wife Told Me I Was Too Small! What Do I Do With That Information?!"
A follower reaches out with a story that no man wants to hear: His wife told him that he wasn't big enough. To add insult to injury, she compared him to a much bigger ...