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DSO Reacts: Joe Rogan and Dr. Jordan Peterson Talk About "Enforced Monogamy" and Incels
This is my first stab at my version of a "reaction" video (this is audio from a video on Youtube). In this clip, Joe Rogan and Jordan Peterson talk about the concept o...
Dear DSO: “I don’t have sexual desire… but that’s no reason to leave me.”
A good example of "entitlement". A female reader says that she has zero libido, has endured sex with her husband for years, finally admitted to him she can't stand sex...
Mrs DSO and I Talk About Female Entitlement
Women, specifically American women, sure do seem to have a sense of unearned entitlement. Where does that come from? What can you do about it?
Dear DSO: ""The Dead Bedroom Fix works... but only if I continuously put in work."
A reader emails me about his dilemma: Sure, the stuff outlined in The Dead Bedroom Fix worked for him... but he always has to put in some kind of work to get his wife ...
MGTOW - "Men Going Their Own Way"
Let's chat about an internet buzzword that you may have come across: MGTOW. Who or what is it? Why are men "going their own way"?
Testosterone - Coach Vance & DSO Chat About the Popular Topic
As men age, our testosterone values naturally plummet... and many are taking to Testosterone Replacement Therapy (TRT) to dial back the hands of time and look and fee...
Count Your Blessings
Let's take a quick trip through recent history to put things into perspective. We don't know how lucky we are. We owe it to those who came before us to enjoy every mom...
Hypergamy
Let's talk about a popular internet buzzword: Hypergamy. What is it, exactly, and why is it such a hot-button topic for so many men?
Interview with GS Youngblood - Author of "The Masculine in Relationship"
GS Youngblood, popular author and men's coach, stops by the Dad Starting Over podcast to discuss his philosophies around relationships and his popular book.
Interview with Jay - An Old Internet Friend from Pre-DSO Days
Jay and I go way back... back to the days when I was freshly divorced and online looking to chat with other guys going through the same thing. Our stories were so simi...
Neuroticism
Let's talk about Neuroticism, one of the "big five" personality traits. From what I can tell, this is the most troublesome trait for men. If you are a man and you are ...
From the Archives: Seven Signs That Your Wife is Cheating
Here is a popular episode from the DSO archives. In this one, I talk about the seven most common things I hear from men who discovered that their wife was cheating on ...
Introducing Coach Vance! Let's Chat About Supplements
Coach Vance is the newest member of the DSO team... and he brings with him a truckload of experience and education in the world of health and fitness. In this episode,...
Interview with Faisal Khokhar
Faisal Khokhar, of masculine.co, was kind enough to chat and tell us his story of going from self-professed computer geek, to a divorced father of two teaching men how...
The Three Types of Married Men
If you are a people-watching nerd like me, you just love to get to know people and their stories... and then promptly start to categorize them like lab rats. Not the n...
So... I Got Fired From My Day Job
Yep... the boss beat me to the punch. I was "let go" from my biggest source of income. Well, now things are going to get real!
Interview with "Jude the Divorced Dadvocate"
Jude has been there and done that and has the scars to prove. He is a divorced father of three who has devoted his time and effort to helping out Divorced men all over...
Interview with Ben and Nikki from "Our Happy Divorce"
Ben and Nikki are a divorced couple. Nothing abnormal, right? Where they differ from most is that they consciously decided to make the experience as happy and "normal"...
Interview with "Hank" - A Reader and DSO Fraternity Member Who is Going Through a Divorce
Hank's story will be familiar to many of you. He was way too quick jumping into a new relationship and five years later realizes that no matter what he does... he and ...
Interview With Michael - Reader and DSO Fraternity Member Who Transformed Himself in Five Months
Michael is a reader of The Dead Bedroom Fix and DSO Fraternity member who is admittedly still a work in progress but he has made HUGE strides in just five short months...
Post-Nashville DSO Fraternity Roundtable Discussion
A few DSO Fraternity members and I get together to chat about our experience in Nashville, TN... the location of the first-ever DSO Fraternity members meeting.
Mrs. DSO and I Talk About What Women Think of My Book, "The Dead Bedroom Fix"
What does Mrs. DSO think of my book, The Dead Bedroom Fix? What do women, in general, think of their men reading a book like this?
Sex/Life - Mrs. DSO and I Talk About the Popular Netflix Series
Is the popular Netflix series "Sex/Life" very realistic? Yes. Do we know people in our social circle that fit the mold of that story? Yes. Do I hear stories like it on...
Jack London Interviews His Sister, Kristi Vaccaro, of F.I.T. LV. They Discuss the "Type A" Woman
Jack London, popular meeting host and coach at Dad Starting Over, sits down and chat with his sister, Kristi Vaccaro, about her obvious "Type A" personality trait and ...
Kim Anami and I Talk About Sex and Relationships
Kim Anami is a holistic sex + relationship coach, writer, and speaker. Her work is a spiritual synthesis of over two decades of Tantra, Taoism, Transpersonal psycholog...
My Interview on the DadTough Podcast - We Discuss The Dead Bedroom Fix and Other Fun Topics
Blake, host of the DadTough podcast, was kind enough to have me on his show to discuss The Dead Bedroom Fix. Give his show a listen!
From "Vulnerability" to "Ew... what kind of man are you?"
Some men will tell you that you need to "suck it up" and never show emotion. Some men tell you to emote freely as much as you want. There's truth in both. Being "vulne...
Interview with Scott and Gail - A Dead Bedroom Fix couple talks about Scott's transformation and the effect on their marriage.
You may remember "Dr. Scott" from a previous episode. Well, Scott was kind enough to come back on the DSO podcast... but this time he brought his wife Gail along to ch...
The "Grey Rock" Method
When you are dealing with a toxic person, you DO NOT engage with their emotional behavior. This is a typical manipulative tactic to reel you over to the "loser" side o...
"What's up with women and mental health issues?" - with Mrs. DSO
I hear ALL THE TIME from my coaching clients, readers, and members of the DSO Fraternity: "My wife suffers from mental illness" (depression, anxiety, inability to cope...