Married to Chaos: 20+ Years With a Borderline Wife (A Brutal True Story)

Ant, a follower, reaches out with his story of complete chaos. This is the perfect example of a naive man who marries a probably borderline wife, and the many examples...

"I Shouldn't Have to Do That... I'm Married!" -- The Thought Pattern That Will Get You Into Trouble

In this video, I am responding to commenters who tell them that they shouldn't HAVE to put in effort to maintain a relationship and attraction. You just stick around w...

“Why Is She Acting This Way?!” : The All-Too-Common Behavior of the Soon-To-Be Ex-wife.

Our pal "Wordsmith" is back with a new "Dear DSO" submission (https://deardso.com). He's perplexed by his soon-to-be ex-wife's erratic behavior. Why is she doing these...

Dear DSO: "My Wife Shut Down After Menopause!"

A "Dear DSO" follower reaches out to share his frustration. He's at a loss. His married sex life has stopped completely for the past two years. The reason? Menopause. ...

Dating Advice for the Divorced Guy - Let's Talk About Red Flags

A follower from a live stream asks about advice when it comes to dating. He has just started dating two years after his divorce. He's seeing green flags for sure, but ...

Chore Play... Does It Work?

This is a clip from one of our private live zoom meetings we host for members of our HFM Brotherhood. We have anywhere from 6-8 live meetings every week, and they are ...

Don't Lie to Get Women (from a DSO Live Stream)

From a DSO Live Stream, Ralph reacts to a follower saying that he has to lie to women about his kid situation in order to get dates. Guys, we have to stop lying to jus...

How One Horrible Decision Can Ruin Your Life - A Follower's Story

Ralph gets a "Dear DSO" submission for a guy named Joe... and it's a doozy! Listen to Joe's story and how one big, important life decision (taking his mentally ill ex-...

A Chat With a Long-Time Follower About His Stressful Marriage and Imminent Divorce

For those who watch a lot of DSO videos and listen to the podcast, you have probably heard me mention the name "Wordsmith" more than a few times. Wordsmith is a follow...

Top Questions for 2024!

Here are the most-asked questions I received in 2024. Thanks to all of you reached out to me, purchased a book, signed up for coaching, or signed up for our men's grou...

Dear DSO: "How Can I Win Her Back?"

Ralph addresses a common dilemma faced by many men undergoing relationship challenges; the question of whether and how to "get your wife back" after a separation. Usin...

Dear DSO: "I can't wait that long! I need to make a baby now!"

Ralph delves into a thought-provoking discussion prompted by a listener named Paula, who challenges his advice that men should wait three years before marrying a woman...

The Two Type of Cheating Men

Ralph delves into the intricate topic of infidelity among men, drawing from his extensive experience working with men and data from anonymous surveys. This discussion ...

"I Changed... Now It's Your Turn to Completely Change Your Personality!"

"I've Had No Luck Dating After Divorce!"

We Need to Stop Shaming Our Fellow Men - Stop Calling Them "Simps" and "Incels"

Our Stressed-Out, High-Anxiety Wives

Ralph examines anxiety in relationships, focusing on the interaction between anxious men and their equally anxious partners. Ralph draws on his decade of experience to...

Divorced? Want Just ONE Woman For The Rest of Your Life? Probably Not Happening.

Ralph explores the often harsh reality faced by newly divorced individuals re-entering the dating world. He challenges the romanticized notion of "the one" by presenti...

Dear DSO: "My Wife Became a Fitness Fanatic and Then Cheated!"

Ralph addresses a "Dear DSO" letter from a man named Steve, who shares the breakdown of his 15-year marriage due to his wife’s significant lifestyle and fitness change...

Jumping From Relationship to Relationship - Do You Not Like to Be Alone? - A Dear DSO Live Chat

This is my very first live call-in chat with a "Dear DSO" submission. You can submit your own question or story to https://deardso.com.In this one, Christopher talks a...

Baby Rabies and Single Moms - Be Careful!

In this episode, Ralph examines the challenges men often face after divorce, noting that 70% of men are surprised by their partners' decision to leave. He discusses th...

Why Would She Cheat And Go To Such Extremes To Hurt Me?!

Ralph examines the emotional turmoil that follows infidelity, focusing on the psychological effects on those who have been wronged. The discussion highlights betrayal,...

Let's Talk About Duty Sex (From a Live HFM Brotherhood Member Meeting)

Everyone seems to be talking about DUTY SEX right now. Why is this such a hot-button topic? What exactly is it, anyway? Should women do it? Should men accept it?This i...

Dear DSO: "Why is she so ANGRY at me for being upset about being rejected for the hundredth time?"

This episode of "Dear DSO" addresses a common couple's issue: reduced sexual intimacy. Ralph shares a letter from Jack, a 40-year-old struggling with a near-nonexisten...

When The Nice Guy Turns Into The "Alpha" Dude... And The Ensuing Drama

In this episode, Ralph examines the changes men undergo when shifting from "nice guys" to more confident "alpha males." He discusses how a personal crisis often trigge...

Dear DSO: "It's Like When Your Boss Just Decides to Cut Your Pay!"

In the latest episode of 'Dear DSO,' Ralph responds to a question from a participant called "Wordsmith." Wordsmith compares the decline of workplace wages to the decre...

Dear DSO: "I Feel Like My Wife is Just Using Me in Bed! There's No Connection!"

A follower reaches out and shares the typical "anxious man/avoidant wife" scenario we hear about so often, but this time with one twist: His wife does seem to want sex...

DSO Reacts - Sadia Khan Dropping Truth Bombs About Women and Cheating!

A lot of people have been sending me the link to a video interview between Sadia Khan and Matthew Hussey. In this episode of DSO Reacts, I break down a couple of point...

Dear DSO: "Why Are Women So Mad When Men Relax?!"

In this episode of Dear DSO, Ralph discusses the topic of how men relax and how women perceive it. This subject was brought up by a contributor named Mr. Wordsmith 380...

A Follow-Up To The "Scarcity" Video (from a live stream event)

Ralph examines the psychology behind men's perceived scarcity in the dating world and its effect on their interactions with women. He looks at how this mindset influen...