"I've Had No Luck Dating After Divorce!"

We Need to Stop Shaming Our Fellow Men - Stop Calling Them "Simps" and "Incels"

Our Stressed-Out, High-Anxiety Wives

Ralph examines anxiety in relationships, focusing on the interaction between anxious men and their equally anxious partners. Ralph draws on his decade of experience to...

Divorced? Want Just ONE Woman For The Rest of Your Life? Probably Not Happening.

Ralph explores the often harsh reality faced by newly divorced individuals re-entering the dating world. He challenges the romanticized notion of "the one" by presenti...

Dear DSO: "My Wife Became a Fitness Fanatic and Then Cheated!"

Ralph addresses a "Dear DSO" letter from a man named Steve, who shares the breakdown of his 15-year marriage due to his wife’s significant lifestyle and fitness change...

Jumping From Relationship to Relationship - Do You Not Like to Be Alone? - A Dear DSO Live Chat

This is my very first live call-in chat with a "Dear DSO" submission. You can submit your own question or story to https://deardso.com.In this one, Christopher talks a...

Baby Rabies and Single Moms - Be Careful!

In this episode, Ralph examines the challenges men often face after divorce, noting that 70% of men are surprised by their partners' decision to leave. He discusses th...

Why Would She Cheat And Go To Such Extremes To Hurt Me?!

Ralph examines the emotional turmoil that follows infidelity, focusing on the psychological effects on those who have been wronged. The discussion highlights betrayal,...

Let's Talk About Duty Sex (From a Live HFM Brotherhood Member Meeting)

Everyone seems to be talking about DUTY SEX right now. Why is this such a hot-button topic? What exactly is it, anyway? Should women do it? Should men accept it?This i...

Dear DSO: "Why is she so ANGRY at me for being upset about being rejected for the hundredth time?"

This episode of "Dear DSO" addresses a common couple's issue: reduced sexual intimacy. Ralph shares a letter from Jack, a 40-year-old struggling with a near-nonexisten...

When The Nice Guy Turns Into The "Alpha" Dude... And The Ensuing Drama

In this episode, Ralph examines the changes men undergo when shifting from "nice guys" to more confident "alpha males." He discusses how a personal crisis often trigge...

Dear DSO: "It's Like When Your Boss Just Decides to Cut Your Pay!"

In the latest episode of 'Dear DSO,' Ralph responds to a question from a participant called "Wordsmith." Wordsmith compares the decline of workplace wages to the decre...

Dear DSO: "I Feel Like My Wife is Just Using Me in Bed! There's No Connection!"

A follower reaches out and shares the typical "anxious man/avoidant wife" scenario we hear about so often, but this time with one twist: His wife does seem to want sex...

DSO Reacts - Sadia Khan Dropping Truth Bombs About Women and Cheating!

A lot of people have been sending me the link to a video interview between Sadia Khan and Matthew Hussey. In this episode of DSO Reacts, I break down a couple of point...

Dear DSO: "Why Are Women So Mad When Men Relax?!"

In this episode of Dear DSO, Ralph discusses the topic of how men relax and how women perceive it. This subject was brought up by a contributor named Mr. Wordsmith 380...

A Follow-Up To The "Scarcity" Video (from a live stream event)

Ralph examines the psychology behind men's perceived scarcity in the dating world and its effect on their interactions with women. He looks at how this mindset influen...

Porn... It Ain't Good For You (from a live stream event)

Ralph discusses pornography, sex work, and their psychological and social effects. He starts by examining the historical background of these industries, disproving the...

What About Just "Hooking Up" With Women After Divorce? (from a live stream event)

Ralph responds to a question from a YouTube viewer, Jason, about the dynamics of hooking up—not dating—after a divorce. Ralph explains the complexities of post-divorce...

Dear DSO: "Cheating Ex-Wife Left... But is Now Contacting Me Again!"

Ralph addresses a letter from a listener named Dunk, dealing with the aftermath of his wife's infidelity. The episode explores the challenges of handling betrayal, men...

Dear DSO: "Wife Says She Wants Sex... Just Not With Me".

Ralph discusses a listener-submitted story from Thomas about relationship issues and maintaining intimacy in marriage. The episode, titled "Wife not worried about bein...

Gentlemen: Your Scarcity is Killing You!

Ralph discusses the widespread issue of scarcity mindset among men, especially in relationships. He explains the harmful effects of a scarcity mindset and how it manif...

Lesbian Couples: High Rates of Dead Bedrooms and Divorce!

In this episode, Ralph delves into the controversial topic of "lesbian bed death" and the unusually high divorce rates among lesbian couples compared to their heterose...

The Paternity Testing Myth

Ralph delves deep into the emotional traumas many men face due to infidelity and broken relationships. He critically examines the burgeoning trend of male victimhood a...

Seven Signs That Your Wife May Be Cheating on You

Ralph addresses the stigma surrounding infidelity and provides a nuanced perspective on why it might happen. He kicks off by debunking the myth that most women in rela...

"I'm Starting to Despise Women!"

Ralph delves into an intriguing message from a Facebook follower that serves as a perfect illustration of the typical challenges faced by men in today's dating and rel...

Why Did She Cheat?!

Ralph delves deep into the distressing world of infidelity, targeting the psychology behind why women cheat in relationships. Through a blend of data, anecdotal eviden...

Dear DSO: "We Are Not The Same Since My Wife's Emotional Affair"

Ralph addresses a poignant letter from Jay, a long-time listener seeking advice on how to revive the dwindling romance in his marriage. The letter, filled with raw emo...

Dear DSO: "Wife Says She Enjoys Our Time... But Sometimes She Doesn't Orgasm"

Ralph dives into a unique and complex relationship concern that's been submitted by one of our listeners, who goes by the pseudonym "Could be worse." In this episode, ...

Dear DSO: "Can My OCD Wife Change?"

Ralph addresses a deeply personal letter from a listener named Jay, who is grappling with significant intimacy issues in his ten-year marriage. The common theme throug...

Dear DSO: "I'm In An Abusive Relationship"

Confused Husband seeks advice from Ralph on handling a toxic marriage where his wife despises his daughter and exhibits abusive behavior. He reveals deep-seated issues...