All Episodes
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A Follow-Up To The "Scarcity" Video (from a live stream event)
Ralph examines the psychology behind men's perceived scarcity in the dating world and its effect on their interactions with women. He looks at how this mindset influen...
Porn... It Ain't Good For You (from a live stream event)
Ralph discusses pornography, sex work, and their psychological and social effects. He starts by examining the historical background of these industries, disproving the...
What About Just "Hooking Up" With Women After Divorce? (from a live stream event)
Ralph responds to a question from a YouTube viewer, Jason, about the dynamics of hooking up—not dating—after a divorce. Ralph explains the complexities of post-divorce...
Dear DSO: "Cheating Ex-Wife Left... But is Now Contacting Me Again!"
Ralph addresses a letter from a listener named Dunk, dealing with the aftermath of his wife's infidelity. The episode explores the challenges of handling betrayal, men...
Dear DSO: "Wife Says She Wants Sex... Just Not With Me".
Ralph discusses a listener-submitted story from Thomas about relationship issues and maintaining intimacy in marriage. The episode, titled "Wife not worried about bein...
Gentlemen: Your Scarcity is Killing You!
Ralph discusses the widespread issue of scarcity mindset among men, especially in relationships. He explains the harmful effects of a scarcity mindset and how it manif...
Lesbian Couples: High Rates of Dead Bedrooms and Divorce!
In this episode, Ralph delves into the controversial topic of "lesbian bed death" and the unusually high divorce rates among lesbian couples compared to their heterose...
The Paternity Testing Myth
Ralph delves deep into the emotional traumas many men face due to infidelity and broken relationships. He critically examines the burgeoning trend of male victimhood a...
Seven Signs That Your Wife May Be Cheating on You
Ralph addresses the stigma surrounding infidelity and provides a nuanced perspective on why it might happen. He kicks off by debunking the myth that most women in rela...
"I'm Starting to Despise Women!"
Ralph delves into an intriguing message from a Facebook follower that serves as a perfect illustration of the typical challenges faced by men in today's dating and rel...
Why Did She Cheat?!
Ralph delves deep into the distressing world of infidelity, targeting the psychology behind why women cheat in relationships. Through a blend of data, anecdotal eviden...
Dear DSO: "We Are Not The Same Since My Wife's Emotional Affair"
Ralph addresses a poignant letter from Jay, a long-time listener seeking advice on how to revive the dwindling romance in his marriage. The letter, filled with raw emo...
Dear DSO: "Wife Says She Enjoys Our Time... But Sometimes She Doesn't Orgasm"
Ralph dives into a unique and complex relationship concern that's been submitted by one of our listeners, who goes by the pseudonym "Could be worse." In this episode, ...
Dear DSO: "Can My OCD Wife Change?"
Ralph addresses a deeply personal letter from a listener named Jay, who is grappling with significant intimacy issues in his ten-year marriage. The common theme throug...
Dear DSO: "I'm In An Abusive Relationship"
Confused Husband seeks advice from Ralph on handling a toxic marriage where his wife despises his daughter and exhibits abusive behavior. He reveals deep-seated issues...
Dear DSO: "My Cheating Wife Wants Back"
Ralph addresses John’s heart-wrenching predicament: his wife’s affair led to their separation, and now she wants to come back. Ralph sheds light on different types of ...
Dear DSO: "I'm Divorced and Ready to Get Back Out There. Or Am I...?"
A 50-year-old man, Mister In Between, seeks advice from Ralph on rebuilding his life post-divorce. Diagnosed with depression and mild bipolar disorder, he grapples wit...
Dear DSO: "My Wife's Illness Is Impacting Our Relationship"
Ralph tackles a heartfelt query from a listener named "Help," who is grappling with the challenges posed by his wife's debilitating condition, POTS (Postural Orthostat...
Dear DSO: "My Husband Doesn't Want Me!"
Ralph addresses a poignant message from Lana, a 42-year-old woman facing a significant marital dilemma. Despite being attractive, fit, and highly sexual, Lana struggle...
"You Only Do This Because I Told You To! It Doesn't Count!" (from a live stream)
Ralph addresses Adnor's dilemma about seeking counseling for relationship issues without making it feel like an ultimatum. Drawing from real-life examples, Ralph empha...
Staying Sexy in Long-Term Monogamy.... is it Possible? (from live stream)
Can a couple's sex life be sustainable over a the life of strict long-term monogamy? In this episode, Ralph explores the challenges of maintaining a fulfilling sex lif...
"Men shouldn't get in shape... it makes the wife insecure. It's bad for the relationship!"
A follower on Facebook reached out to me with his point of view about getting in shape. In his mind, it is NOT a good idea! His wife, after all, feels insecure about h...
The Dating Game for Young Adults (from a live event)
In this episode, Ralph responds to a question from a listener named Candice about the modern dating scene, which veers dramatically from what many parents recall from ...
Why Does Female Libido Go Down in Monogamy?! Won't That Scare The Man Away?! (from a DSO Live Stream)
Sexual desire within monogamous relationships has long been a highly nuanced and widely debated subject. A myriad of psychological and anthropological perspectives sug...
Dear DSO: "My Wife Has Suddenly Changed!"
Harry asks his wife to return to work post-pregnancy, which results in her filing for divorce. Their marriage struggles due to frequent disputes, troublesome family me...
Dear DSO: "Wife Has Become Withdrawn, Angry, and Has More Mental Breakdowns"
"Mister Niceguy No More" has written to Ralph about difficulties in his eleven-year marriage, describing his wife's distant and transactional approach to their sex lif...
Dear DSO: "I’m a New Father... And I Was Really Tempted to Cheat (But I Didn’t). Is There Hope for Our Marriage?"
A reader reaches out to share his stress over being a new father and being tempted to almost cheat on his spouse... What does this mean for him and his marriage?
Dear DSO: Should I Tell My Wife/Roommate About My Cancer Diagnosis?
A reader has a great deal of resentment towards his spouse of 13-15 years of a dead bedroom marriage... but he's recently been diagnosed with cancer. Should he tell hi...
Dad Starting over Is Now Part of the Help for Men Network!
We are proud to introduce our new brand: Help For Men! You can learn more at helpformen.com.The DSO Fraternity, our private group for men only, will now be known as Th...
How Often Should The Responsive Desire Person Initiate? (with Dr. Psych Mom - from a Live Event)
Dr. Psych Mom and Ralph answer a question from a follower: How often should the responsive desire partner actually initiate sex?